Thoughts on Elizabeth Edwards

As the word of the seemingly imminent death of Elizabeth Edwards has surfaced on the national and local news, I am struck by her approach to this tragedy of life. Mrs. Edwards is taking the high road - if you will "bumping it up" - as she approaches the end of her life.

We are all aware of the underlying stories that have surfaced over the past 10 years form the Edwards family - some good and some tragic. Throughout, Elizabeth Edwards has been a pillar of strength and a role model for us all.

The most recent press release from the family in Chapel Hill with Mrs. Edwards own announcement of the situation is heart-warming, courageous and symbolic of a person who is living out what we as practitioners of Control Theory believe. Listen to her words: "The days of our lives, for all of us, are numbered. We know that. And, yes, there are certainly times when we aren't able to muster as much strength and patience as we would like. It's called being human." "But I have found that in the simple act of living with hope, and in the daily effort to have a positive impact in the world, the days I do have are made all the more meaningful and precious. "

Edwards goes on to reflect on her life and the what is positive in it for herself, her children and family. She has looked at the circumstances of her life and has decided to "be the person she wants to be" and needs to be to leave a positive legacy.

I have no knowledge that Elizabeth Edwards ever attended an IAACT intensive seminar where 'Control Theory' was shared. What is evident is that she embodies the characteristics that are the foundation of PCT and lives them in her daily life.

As this post is being written, TV and radio shows are airing details of Mrs. Edwards' life and approach to impending death due to cancer. What courage & resolve she shows. Bravo Elizabeth Edwards! I grow stronger as a person because of you. Our prayers and good thoughts are with you and your family.